Ways to say NO !

   
    * Set personal limits regarding premarital sex and don't lower them for anyone.
    * Avoid tempting situations.
    * Find supportive friends and hang around people who have the same values as you.
    * Don't assume you have gone too far and cannot change.
    * Plan your dates... be creative, occupy yourselves with good fun.
    * Avoid watching sexually explicit media.  
    * Control your own body.
    * Walk away from overwhelming situations.

    Reasons to WAIT !

    * Unwanted pregnancies and abortions can be prevented.
    * Sexually transmitted diseases are life threatening and can cause permanent damage.
    * Sex does NOT guarantee a lasting relationship and it only hurts more when you "break up".
    * Waiting allows the freedom to develop strong friendships.
    * Premarital sex takes away the specialness of sex in marriage. There is only one "first" time.
    * Premarital sex can hurt one's relationship with his or her parents and others.
    * Sexual decisions can sabotage future goals.